Women are often embarrased to speak about their sexuality. More often than not, they have reall problems with sex and pretend that they do not. I cannot tell you the number of women that see me and tell me how they “fake” it with their significant others. While others may even worse, pretend to not have pain!!! This is especially common with women (and men) who have IC or other related chronic inflammatory conditions. The facinating thing, is that when the body is treated holistically for that chronic condition, such as the IC, the peripheral problems go away, i.e., problems orgasming or painful sex. In my humble opinion, this is the way in which the human body should be approached. IF you treat it in a segmented manner, the results will also be segmented creating other unwanted effects. The following article is one way in which problems with orgasm is being approached nonholistically:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25800764/from/ET/